Xia Xiaolan was also worried about her admission notice.
Her admission notice will be sent directly to her grandmother's house, the post office responsible for her grandmother's house. Xia Xiaolan went to say hello early. The chance of Huaqings notice being destroyed is very small. Before the notice ca, all Xia Xiaolan could do was wait.
For her, eting Zhou Cheng's family is over.
There are still a lot of things waiting for her in Pengcheng.
But for the people around Xia Xiaolan, seeing Zhou Chengs parents is a particularly important thing. After returning to Pengcheng, not only did Kang Wei and Shao Guangrong ask for the news with a cheeky, her uncle Liu Yong also asked, and Liu Fen, who was far away in the capital of Shang Dynasty, also asked. Call to ask.
Liu Fen usually doesn't take the initiative to call her. Why does the phone receiver allow two people thousands of miles away to hear each other? Liu Fen doesn't understand the principle. The distortion of the voice during the call also made Liu Fen uncomfortable. She would rather take a telegram for everything. Xia Xiaolan went to Beijing to see Zhou Cheng's family, but the telegram couldn't tell, so Liu Fen could only call.
She really asked all the details!
Hearing that Xia Xiaolan had t almost all of Zhou Cheng's imdiate relatives at one ti, Liu Fen was very nervous.
I heard that Xia Xiaolan told her family's situation honestly, and even told Zhou's family about her divorce. Liu Fen almost fainted while holding the microphone.
"You stupid boy, how can you say..."
Liu Fen's words are unsatisfactory. Of course Xiaolan is a good boy. She is a mother better than anyone else. But it was the first ti that Zhou Cheng's family saw Xiaolan, and they didn't understand it. What if they would dislike it when they heard that Xiaolan's parents were divorced?
Xia Xiaolan told her seriously:
"If Zhou Cheng's family wants to point out your marital status, it proves that Zhou Cheng and I are not suitable. Marriage and divorce are both personal choices. The national law allows divorce, which proves that you have the right to decide for yourself. Mom, this is not What a sha, people didnt know about it before getting married. In the next two years, more and more people will get divorced. You will not be ashad at all. Instead, you will be ahead of many people. An unhappy marriage is a torture. You Just bravely took the initiative to end this torture!"
There was silence on the phone, and Xia Xiaolan changed the conversation and said sothing that made Liu Fen relaxed:
"Of course, based on the feeling I t for the first ti, Zhou Cheng's family is still very easy to get along with. His grandmother is very enthusiastic, and grandpa especially supports to study more... When I left, I gave a eting gift. You can rest assured Right?"
Liu Fen is almost dying, how can he pant so much when he speaks?
Hearing that the eting ceremony was given, Liu Fen felt at ease.
Customs across the country are the sa. The girl goes back with the object for the first ti. If the elders in the mans family are satisfied, they will give so greetings. How can Liu Fen pay so much attention to these things, he was taught by his grandmother, saying that Zhou Cheng is a careful person, and the family must understand these old rules. If you want to see Xia Xiaolan, she won't let her leave empty-handed. Of course, it would be rude for Xia Xiaolan to go to Zhou Cheng's house empty-handed and with a mouth open for the first ti.
Respect is for both sides. So old rules are feudal dregs, and so rules that grandma thinks can be passed on forever.
"Just say you. At that ti, your brother married you to the Xia's family, and he didn't accept any gifts. Xia Jiabai picked up a daughter-in-law and ca back as a cow. What did he do to you in the end?"
Grandma Yu brainwashed Liu Fen all day, and Liu Fen nodded her head anyway the old lady said.
At that ti, there was a famine, and Liu Yong wanted her to marry and go to the Xias house to eat a full al, and there was no money to buy a dowry, and what kind of gift she would receive. Now think about it, of the three daughters-in-law of the Xia family, she was the only one who didn't get married in a catty of rice. Just like Grandma Yu said, Mrs. Xia was the worst to her.
After hanging up the phone, Liu Fen confessed to her grandma:
"Xiaolan said she took things to Zhou's house. When she left, Zhou's parents gave a eting gift. Grandma Zhou Cheng gave a jade bracelet, and Mother Zhou Cheng gave her earrings..."
Grandma Yu nodded, "That's right, you don't have to worry, your daughter is smarter than anyone else, and it is not difficult for her to please anyone."
Those who hate Xia Xiaolan must have conflicts of interest, and Liu Fen, who grandma Yu said, feels very loose. Zhou Chengs look was really good, and he had a lot of respect for Xiaolan and his relatives and elders here. Liu Fen was not that kind of snobbery.
Before getting the provincial champion, Zhou Cheng was an officer, and he didn't say that the conditions on Xiaolan's side were not good.
Liu Fen's idea is simple, but it suits grandma's appetite.
The combination of the provincial champion and Huaqing University, according to grandma's guess, is nothing but a threshold for crossing Zhou Cheng's ho.
Xia Xiaolan is good enough that the Zhou family will not object to her and Zhou Cheng's objection.
If it is said that only a provincial champion and a student status of Huaqing University can conversely look down on Zhou's family, Grandma Yu thinks that Xia Xiaolan is not so frivolous. Any powerful family needs ti to develop. Every year there are top candidates in the college entrance examination, and every year, graduates of Huaqing University are assigned to jobs. It is a dragon or a worm. There is no test of 20 or 30 years.
It's too early for Xia Xiaolan to raise her tail. Zhou Cheng has sothing inherently possessed, but now she just relies on her own efforts to have the conditions that match Zhou Cheng.
Grandma Yu is sober, and she hopes that Xia Xiaolan can also be sober... In the end, whether she can marry Zhou Cheng, or even whether she can marry, or who she marries is not important. What is important is that Xia Xiaolan understands what she wants.
Relying on n and relying on marriage is the way.
Not relying on n, not relying on marriage, is another way.
Grandma Yao said that it is not common for girls like Xia Xiaolan to be able to beco a girl. Although the prerequisite for choosing the second path will endure hardship, it will first be bitter and sweet. It is best for a woman to have the ability to have a wider range of choices in marriage...Family and career want it, the balance between these needs to be figured out by Xia Xiaolan.
"You go to the post office to be more diligent these days. Huaqing's notice is the first batch to be sent. It may arrive in the next few days."
"Hey, listen to you!"
Liu Fen promised to be particularly brisk. Compared to eting Zhou Cheng's family, she also felt that the admission letter was more important.
After getting the admission notice for Xiaolan, Liu Fen also planned to go to Pengcheng. At the end of July, the busiest ti for sumr business has passed. There is no need to stay at the clothing store all day. Li Fengi also encourages her to go to the south more. She said that choosing clothes styles has a lot to learn. Up. The style they chose is not the one that Xiaolan chooses to sell. Custors may not like the clothes they think are good-looking... Fortunately, they can exchange them, or else they will lose money by selling sumr clothes this ti.
Starting from this day, Liu Fen really listened to Grandma Yu's words and went to the post office three tis a day.
Everyone at the post office knows her, and its not too annoying for anyone to get a Huaqing University entrance exam, and it wont be too much to run ten tis a day!
In the blink of an eye, August, the hottest ti of the year ca, and when Liu Fen began to suffer from gains and losses, there was finally so movent at the post office:
"Xia Xiaolan? There is a registered letter!"
##### I went out for dinner, I can update it in ti when I co back in the evening. You may need to read tomorrow morning when you co back. The remaining chapter will not be counted in tomorrows add-on (#^.^#)
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