"Vivi, I took a quick look, and it seems that the main cause of postpartum depression is the decrease in hormones after giving birth. How about this? You should try and take so more ti to go out and about, right, have you been breastfeeding the baby lately?"
Qin Xiaoxu saw Han Xuewei nodding her head, then asked, "Is it possible to take a break? Maybe you should stop breastfeeding."
After hearing this, Han Xuewei shook her head like a rattle drum, "That won't do, I can't stop no matter what, only this way can I recognize my identity as a mother."
Seeing Han Xuewei so insistent, Qin Xiaoxu had no choice but to say, "Alright then, breastfeeding is really good for the child, so just continue."
Qin Xiaoxu also knew that her suggestion was sowhat problematic, she was thinking too one-sidedly!
After all, Han Xuewei hadn't been a mother for very long, and she was extrely attentive to the babies. If she were to stop breastfeeding, it would only make her more anxious.
Moreover, Qin Xiaoxu didn't understand what kind of troubles her best friend Han Xuewei was currently facing. Right now, she was completely worry-free, lacking nothing in material and spiritual terms, even much better off than others. So why would she suffer from postpartum depression?
If Han Xuewei didn't have such favorable conditions now, or if she hadn't t good in-laws, or even if Lin Yi had many flaws and treated her poorly, her postpartum depression could have been much worse!
The more Qin Xiaoxu thought about it, the more terrified she felt, and she started to worry about Han Xuewei.
But now there was so little she could do; it seed that apart from offering comfort, she didn't know what else to say.
She grabbed Han Xuewei's hand and said earnestly, "Vivi, you must take good care of yourself no matter what, don't overthink things, do what you love every day. If you feel even a bit unhappy, you can totally tell Lin Yi, or you can co and talk to ! In any case, you can't keep things bottled up inside, understand?"
Han Xuewei nodded seriously and then began to chat with her best friend about sothing that had happened a few days ago.
"Xiaoxu, a few days ago our family was pushing the baby stroller around the neighborhood, and then two large dogs burst out and rushed toward the stroller, scaring the babies into crying. That really frightened , and the babies' situation didn't look too optimistic, especially little ngng. Even after we got ho, she needed to be held by an adult to fall asleep, or she would just keep crying.
Those days, I also suffered a bit of insomnia. Everyone else tells that the babies are fine and they'll get over it in a few days, but I'm still very worried..."
As she spoke, Han Xuewei's eyes filled with tears, as if she was about to start crying at any second.
Qin Xiaoxu quickly handed over a tissue, patted her on the back, and comforted, "It's okay, don't keep it inside, let it all out if you want to cry! If you feel it's not right to talk about it in a public place, we can go to a private room."
Han Xuewei nodded with red eyes.
And just like that, Qin Xiaoxu imdiately called the service staff to switch them to a private room.
Han Xuewei also poured out her troubles to her best friend, and the two of them chatted and dined there for a solid two hours.
After finishing these conversations, Han Xuewei finally took a long breath, "Xiaoxu, after talking to you, I feel much relieved. It seems I need to invite you out more often."
Upon hearing this, Qin Xiaoxu burst into laughter, "That's right, so I'll keep waiting for your treat to a big al then!"
After finishing their al, they then went to the beauty salon in Qianda Shopping Mall.
"Vivi, I really am too exhausted, it's been such a long ti since I've been to a beauty salon! Look at my skin, it's so much worse than when we were at school!"
After they arrived at the beauty salon, Qin Xiaoxu lay down to be massaged and was clearly enjoying herself as she spoke to Han Xuewei.
However, Han Xuewei said with a smile, "That's no problem, we can just co here more often. We'll make up for the tis we've missed."
But the other shook her head and replied, "No, no, I'm just too busy with work. Let at least get past my probation period! Just half a month more to go! But... even though I might have the ti then, I still won't be able to afford the expenses here..."
Back when I was still at school, my mom gave a monthly allowance that wasn't small, almost the sa as my monthly salary!
But now rent takes up a lot, and every al is much more expensive than at school. Sigh, it's really tough! I don't dare to spend money recklessly now that I've earned it!
I'll try saving up first! I'll do my best to set aside so, probably can't afford to co here more than twice a month!
After all, the treatnts at this beauty salon aren't cheap. The average expenditure is over fifteen hundred.
At this mont, Han Xuewei suddenly turned to ask the beautician beside her, "Can I share my card with soone else? I an, can my bestie use my card directly the next ti she cos, is that okay?"
The beautician replied very politely, "Mrs. Lin, you can use the card with your bestie. Likewise, we support the issuance of supplentary cards here, also known as sisterhood cards. You can set a spending limit for the supplentary card."
Han Xuewei hurriedly said to the beautician, "Then please issue one for ! Oh, and with no spending limit. Give the supplentary card to my bestie here."
The beautician responded, "Okay, the two of you can take care of that at the front desk after finishing your treatnts. It's quick to process, and you can get the card today after filling out the relevant information."
Han Xuewei nodded, "Alright, I got it."
Lying beside her, Qin Xiaoxu exclaid excitedly, "Wow! Vivi, you really are my best bestie, you're so good to !"
Seeing her bestie's excited reaction, Han Xuewei couldn't help but laugh too, "Now the two of us can go to beauty treatnts together! Make sure you co when you have ti!"
Qin Xiaoxu clapped her hands excitedly, "Mm, we'll hang out more often! This is so aweso!"
Seeing her bestie this happy made her very joyful too. In that mont, it felt like her mood lifted as well.
Han Xuewei originally planned to drive her bestie ho, but Qin Xiaoxu said she didn't live very far away and didn't need a ride, so Han Xuewei went ho alone.
After she got into the car, Qin Xiaoxu sent a ssage to Lin Yi, "Lin Yi, I think Vivi is showing signs of postpartum depression. You really have to pay more attention to her and keep an eye on her recent state."
Lin Yi was busy at ho when he received the ssage and was startled!
He replied anxiously, "How could that happen? What did she say today? Why would she suddenly have postpartum depression?"
Qin Xiaoxu replied, "Vivi said she's been very worried about the child recently, so you need to help her adjust her mindset."
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