83 The Affidavit Anna and Lu Jinhu's Relationship - Part 2
*** WARNING - this chapter and the following chapters cover issues relating to dostic violence.These thes will continue throughout the balance of the story.Please be careful when reading this material ***
Thursday, continued ...
[Anna is still typing her affidavit]
As noted previously Lu Jinhu and I were in a de facto relationship.We initially t at University, when I was completing my Bachelor of Comrce and Bachelor of Laws degree and were living in the sa university college.We dated on and off through university but, as I felt that Lu Jinhu was not committed to our relationship, I refused to allow it to be anything more than the occasional date.
My undergraduate degree was awarded on [ALFRED check my degree on my office wall for the exact date of awarding], and I graduated with with First Class Honours in Law, and Honours in Comrce.My marks saw the university offer the opportunity to complete a Masters Degree by Research looking towards completing a Doctoral Degree.Additionally I received multiple employnt offers.I selected my the position I have with my current employers, and my legal representatives in this matter ANX Lawyers, undertaking work in a variety of fields including comrcial law, criminal law and family law to na a few.
After I completed my undergraduate degree, I completed through the university my professional qualifications.While this was formally awarded on [Note – ALFRED again check the certificate in my office for the date], I was admitted as Legal Practitioner on [Note – ALFRED check all the admission dates on the certificates].
As soon as I completed these professional qualifications, I comnced my employnt.Lu Jinhu finished his undergraduate degree approximately 4 months later.During this ti, we communicated.When he arrived in lbourne he literally turned up on my doorstep, indicating that he wanted a relationship with , and this was when our relationship comnced.
As I was well aware of Lu Jinhu's activities at university, before we comnced a s*xual relationship I demanded, and I believe he felt it deaning, that he undergo screening for s*xually transmitted diseases.The results were negative, after which we comnced a s*xual relationship.My employnt requires annual full dical reviews to determine any impacts on out ability to travel and et client's needs.As part of that we are re-screened for sexually transmitted diseases.My last dical review was just on 2 months prior to the swearing of this affidavit.The screen as part of that review did not detect any s*xually transmitted diseases.
Based on the material in the balance of this affidavit, and applying my professional skill and knowledge, I say that that Lu Jinhu engaged in psychological and economic abuse, as a ans of inflicting dostic violence upon .As at the ti of swearing this affidavit I cannot recall any incidents of physical violence or any other forms of dostic violence.
During our relationship if Lu Jinhu did not like any of my long-term friends, he slowly poisoned my mind against them, do everything to eventually push them out of my life.A number of these friends comnted to that Lu Jinhu was lying to ; using ; and manipulating .However I was invested our relationship and believed Lu Jinhu over these people when he denied their claims of poisoning relationship through his actions.Over the long-term, which I did not realise at the ti Lu Jinhu isolated my from friends he did not approve of.My friends had to be his friends and if they fell out of favour they were pushed from out lives.If I listed every example of his actions I can recall I would have to add 30 or 40 pages to this affidavit to provide the court all the information.
One example, cos from three years ago.A high school friend fell sick with cancer, and it was questionable if she would survive.As her treating hospital was near then ho, I visited this friend 4 or 5 tis per week.About 3 weeks after her admission, Lu Jinhu found out that I was visiting her and told he was accompanying on the visit.He knew I wanted to spend at least an hour with this friend, but within 5 minutes of arrival his complaining was enough that I told him to stop it.By the ti another 10 minutes passed, his sulking was such that I ended the visit with my friend.I apologised to my friend, and told her I would see her soon.
However Lu Jinhu spent the balance of that day and the next morning pressuring not to visit her, claiming my visits were trying her out.Lu Jinhu, however made sure that he accompanied on almost every visit and his actions on every visit were to constantly tell that I should leave my friend alone to deal with her treatnt, until I the visits beca shorter and shorter.
At ho. Lu Jinhu kept pressuring about whether my visits were making a difference, and whether I should remain her friend.As I saw only after my friend died, and I received a letter from her husband, Lu Jinhu was causing to beco more distant from my friend.I refused to accept her version of what was happening with our friendship because of Lu Jinhu, and this eventually led to her refusing to accept further visits from .
My friend survived that cancer scare, but her cancer ca back approximately 12 months ago, but this ti she lost her battle with cancer 7 months after it resurfaced.While she was in this second cancer fight that she lost I attempted to make contact with her but she refused to have anything to do with .At her funeral her husband handed a letter that explained why she ended our friendship, detailing Lu Jihnu's actions towards her both in and out of my presence.I had not realised or accepted what he had done until I read this letter.[Note – ALFRED the original letter is in our deeds system in a packet in my na, should we attach it?].
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